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Our Home our Haven

Sunday, April 10, 2011

                                             Not again...this can't be happening!!!

When announcing the passing of Ruth on friday before we left to go to our son that needed some building help,I mentioned that Ruths son Robert had been killed a long time ago at 17,I thought the post was dismal enough I did not mentiont that her niece who was 42 had died in February this year from the exact same cancer as Ruth.Her mother is Blanch, Ruths sister..Ruths brother Mick and Blanch live very close by and Blanch went to Mick on Friday evening and they shared a beer together in memory of Ruth as she and Mick always made home brew together before Ruth moved from her hometown.They shared a lovely evening of memories.On Sat morn Blanch rang Mick for some dates and family information to give to the ones getting the funeral for Ruth organised,no answer....she diecided to go around to his home to find he had died in his sleep! 3 family members in 3 months! enough! I am sorry to be so morbid,it is just awful,thankyou for letting me get it off my chest,I spoke too early a couple of posts ago when I said no more winging...
My belief is that Ruth got to heaven on Friday eve thought it was such a great place she came straight back and got her Mick...happy home brewing in heaven Ruth and Mick..please don't come for me yet,I have to finish my sewing for the quilt fair.My poor son in law,his favourite cousin,Mum and now his favourite Uncle,like I said enough!

8 comments:

  1. Life (and death) are funny like that, it makes you wonder if that is exactly true...often very old couples will follow each other as well, sometimes it is for the best...but it always makes me wonder if there is something going on there...
    I hope the families can get through it all with some kind of positive thoughts as to 'why'...........x

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  2. My goodness Carole.. You're having it pretty rough at the moment. These things always seem to come in bursts; hopefully good times will come the same way.

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  3. I pray that your family will come through this very tough time Carole.
    Blessings to you.

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  4. Carole, that is so sad. Poor Blanch, to lose her daughter, sister and brother in such a short space of time.My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

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  5. I truly believe they are together now, but it's the folks back on earth who need our prayers now. I hope better things are on their way. Sending you a bug HUG from England.

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  6. That isnt whinging, it is just sadness. Praying for peace now.

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  7. Oh gosh hunny....you really are going through the mill right now. All I can say is I'm sending a huge warm cuddly hug from me to you sprinkled with some much needed sunshine.....
    You know where I am hunny if you need to chat.
    Love n hugs
    Karen x

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  8. Sending hugs to you Carole...

    xTania

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